My belief is training in Martial Arts will build something in everyone beginning with a person's weaknesses but this is not necessarily anything to do with character. It could be completely physical or mental. For example, if a person has a bad memory, this will be the limiting factor in their training and all other areas of training cannot progress until the memory improves. If another student has limited endurance, they may not have the opportunity to test their memory because they are exhausted before they get to that point.
So what areas are built through Martial Arts? These include:
- Humility - during training a student will discover that there are many better Martial Artists in the world and even a frail old man may be able to defeat them in a fighting situation
- Patience - Martial Arts is all about repetition and a typical Martial Arts school will force a student to pass certain gates before progressing to their next level of learning
- Persistence - nobody will be able to do everything without failure but with persistence everyone is able to succeed in learning and performing techniques taught by their instructor
- Self discipline - certain points in a student's training will require their own discipline which was covered in my previous blog entry Fighting Through Monotony
- Respect - for tradition, for other students, for instructors
- Confidence or courage - students that have learned how to defend themselves will be much more confident walking down the street at night, students that have performed in front of a crowd will be less likely to be intimidated by speaking in front of a crowd and students that have seen a punch coming straight for their face is less likely to be scared in a non-physical, confrontational discussion
- Does the student want to learn with an open mind or are they at the school with the attitude that they pay their money and therefore are entitled to certain things?
- Does the instructor treat the class like his/her Martial Arts family or is this a business to them?
- Does the school push students through their program so they can sell a franchise to that student or does the school recognize based on actual level of the student?
- Does the instructor believe in tradition or is it purely fighting that is important such as in boxing or Mixed Martial Arts? Furthermore, does the school have a tradition and lineage that is discussed?
- Why is the student there? Is it because their Mom signed them up or did they truly want to learn Martial Arts for their own reasons?