- Nobody actually wants to hurt you in class because we are all there to learn and get better
- More senior students typically have better control of their techniques and are actually less likely to accidentally hurt you
- Fighting with someone better than you forces you to elevate your fighting to match with your opponent's skill level
- Senior students will often be able to see things in your fighting and be able to give you some pointers on improving your fighting
- With mutual respect and control there is also an opportunity to learn because neither fighter is afraid to get hurt, therefore allowing you to try new techniques
- We are all friends in class
I do recommend being more careful in tournament settings as adrenaline seems to contribute to lack of control. I also believe that tournament fighters care less because they actually don't know you and will not have to see you in the next class. I am not suggesting that people will try to hurt you but I have seen some things that you would not see in class.
Even with tournaments, I would encourage competitors to forget about the size or level of their opponent and look for ways to penetrate the opponent's defences that are within your own abilities.